Unbelieveable.

alot of things have happened over the last few weeks or if not let's even say months.

Things that are nasty and stressful and simply, things that I won't want to go thru again.

Things that as much as I can hold, i wish not to blog

but yesterday's incident was too overwhelming

that I have to have an outlet...




to behave like a 6 year old

hiding behind her father

her father behind her mother

her mother behind this stranger

and this stranger

whom i am not even sure if he knows who and what and why is he representing this gang of people

demanding an audience with my business partner's parents.

why not mine, i wonder

and picture my father possibly bashing them up... maybe.


sounds odd enough?

i forgot, they were not polite enough to make an appointment

they just insisted and stood at the doorway

refusing to budge (its called harassment, esp after you are issued a legal letter)


she knew my business partner's parents were not well

she knew that her parents are best kept out of this affair

to begin with, a 28 year old, should know that she is old enough to deal with this as an adult.

but its ok, its normal for her to involve her parents, esp her mother

its her culture, we are used to it.


Stranger started talking, not sure if he is familiar with the law in Singapore

starting insisting that we agree to conditions set by them

on what grounds, I wonder

as i question him, i noticed his thick fat lips started to tremble

did he suddenly realised his mistake of not finding out the full picture before

representing a 28 year old girl which he kept calling her "him"?


there was obviously no need to entertain them

her mom obviously tried to record all the conversation

with her handphone at hand

and their plot of keeping quiet so they only record us, speaking

hoping to catch us making a mistake

by agreeing under pressure

or saying something that they can hold against us

under their threats of "Awful lawsuits"

why do I know all these you ask?

cos i've seen them plot this kind of acts before

heard her tell me in details their actions and advise from her parents

whenever they want to deal with people who they are losing out to.

yes, its all too familiar and to know that now its used on me.


i guess whats disappointing about the whole event

is she just sat there, head hang low

quiet, like a 6 year old

dealing with things, like she was still in school

it was extremely unprofessional and childish

and with that

my last respect for her even as someone i've come to know over

the last 10 - 15 years of my life

is gone.


she is now, a mere 6 year old stranger

out of my life, and good riddance.



ny.