alot of things have happened over the last few weeks or if not let's even say months.
Things that are nasty and stressful and simply, things that I won't want to go thru again.
Things that as much as I can hold, i wish not to blog
but yesterday's incident was too overwhelming
that I have to have an outlet...
to behave like a 6 year old
hiding behind her father
her father behind her mother
her mother behind this stranger
and this stranger
whom i am not even sure if he knows who and what and why is he representing this gang of people
demanding an audience with my business partner's parents.
why not mine, i wonder
and picture my father possibly bashing them up... maybe.
sounds odd enough?
i forgot, they were not polite enough to make an appointment
they just insisted and stood at the doorway
refusing to budge (its called harassment, esp after you are issued a legal letter)
she knew my business partner's parents were not well
she knew that her parents are best kept out of this affair
to begin with, a 28 year old, should know that she is old enough to deal with this as an adult.
but its ok, its normal for her to involve her parents, esp her mother
its her culture, we are used to it.
Stranger started talking, not sure if he is familiar with the law in Singapore
starting insisting that we agree to conditions set by them
on what grounds, I wonder
as i question him, i noticed his thick fat lips started to tremble
did he suddenly realised his mistake of not finding out the full picture before
representing a 28 year old girl which he kept calling her "him"?
there was obviously no need to entertain them
her mom obviously tried to record all the conversation
with her handphone at hand
and their plot of keeping quiet so they only record us, speaking
hoping to catch us making a mistake
by agreeing under pressure
or saying something that they can hold against us
under their threats of "Awful lawsuits"
why do I know all these you ask?
cos i've seen them plot this kind of acts before
heard her tell me in details their actions and advise from her parents
whenever they want to deal with people who they are losing out to.
yes, its all too familiar and to know that now its used on me.
i guess whats disappointing about the whole event
is she just sat there, head hang low
quiet, like a 6 year old
dealing with things, like she was still in school
it was extremely unprofessional and childish
and with that
my last respect for her even as someone i've come to know over
the last 10 - 15 years of my life
is gone.
she is now, a mere 6 year old stranger
out of my life, and good riddance.
ny.
